Sylvia Ruth Madder

On Wednesday, December 17, 2025, Mrs. Sylvia Ruth Madder (nee McElroy), beloved wife of the late James Madder, of Calgary, Alberta passed away at the age of 87 years.

Sylvia was born on Monday, December 12, 1938, in Heward, Saskatchewan. A beloved matriarch and cherished friend, Sylvia's life was marked by her unwavering dedication to family, her zest for adventure, and her remarkable career accomplishments.

Sylvia's early education was divided between Heward, Saskatchewan and Kincaid, Saskatchewan, where she laid the groundwork for a bright future. She graduated from high school in 1955 and subsequently pursued secretarial studies in Regina. Her professional journey began in Regina and culminated in Calgary, where she proudly earned her Accounting designation (CA). Her career was a testament to her hard work and determination.

In 1961, Sylvia married James Madder, a partnership characterized by love and companionship that lasted until James's passing in 2008. Although they did not have children, Sylvia's influence was deeply felt by the many nieces and nephews in both the Madder and McElroy families. To them, she was far more than an aunt; she embodied the role of a grandparent and mother, providing guidance, support, and an abundance of love.

Athletically inclined, Sylvia embraced a life filled with activity. From her youth spent playing softball to her later passions for skiing and golfing, she reveled in the joy of movement and the outdoors. Following Jim's passing, Sylvia transformed her predetermined bucket list into a vibrant tapestry of both sought-after destinations and unforgettable experiences. Her wanderlust culminated in a memorable cruise to Panama, which she embarked upon just days before her passing.

Sylvia's legacy is enriched by the countless memories shared by those fortunate enough to know her. As a nurturing figure, she ensured that each member of her family felt valued and cared for in every aspect of their lives. Her spirit, kindness, and infectious laughter will be missed by all who had the privilege of crossing paths with this extraordinary woman.

Sylvia is survived by her brother Lonnis McElroy (Susan Underwood) of Victoria, British Columbia; nephew Scott McElroy (Diane Luszniak) of Victoria and Scott's children, David McElroy (Lauren) of Little Rock, Arkansas and their children Graeme, Campbell, Finley, and Marc McElroy (Sarah) of Calgary and their children Chloe, Blake, David and Marc's mother Linette McElroy (Saltspring Island); nephew Glen McElroy (Barbara Carr-Harris) and their children Ronan McElroy and Selena McElroy, all of Victoria.

Besides her husband James, Sylvia is predeceased by her parents Phyllis (nee Burns) and Harold McElroy along with Scott and Glen's mother Lynn McElroy.

There will be no formal service. Cremation has taken place at the Foothills Crematorium.